Assisting Loved Ones with Mobility Needs When They Don’t Think They Have a Mobility Issue

Family gatherings can be a great way to reconnect with loved ones, especially if you aren’t able to check in with them regularly. However, for aging family members struggling with mobility, get-togethers may bring anxiety or avoidance altogether.

Throughout the year, we often get so caught up in the day-to-day of our own lives that we don’t always notice when our aging parents or grandparents might be struggling with limited mobility. As a result, they may isolate themselves or diminish their needs for fear of being a burden.

To help you spot a mobility need, here are a few tips on how to recognize the signs and what steps you can take to ease some of the burden your loved ones might be feeling.

Step 1: Recognize the Warning Signs of Mobility Decline

Signs of someone needing mobility assistance are typically clear. Individuals may have difficulties completing activities of daily life, suffer from frequent falls, or show signs of persistent pain. However, these signs may go unnoticed, especially if you’re loved one is trying to hide signs or if you aren’t able to check in with them regularly.

Regardless of the situation, here are a few telltale signs of a mobility need that can be spotted whether you’re near or far.

Whether you’re speaking in person or over the phone, shortness of breath is often noticeable. If your loved one isn’t very active and consistently experiences shortness of breath, encourage them to check in with their doctor to uncover the root cause and identify possible solutions.

Inclement weather can be a common concern for those with mobility issues because surfaces can become slick and unstable—sometimes impassible. If you find your loved one frequently avoids activities during bad weather, it could be a sign of mobility issues.

Just like avoiding bad weather, someone who struggles with a mobility issue—and not ready to admit it—will more than likely decline social gatherings for fear of looking weak or helpless.

Aging adults often try to hide the fact that they need mobility assistance. If you notice a loved one struggling to sit, stand, or walk, it may be time to discuss their mobility needs.

Memory issues can be linked to both physical and mental decline. If you notice this, consider encouraging memory assessments or routine doctor visits to catch and manage potential issues early.

Step 2: Start the Tough Conversation About Mobility Aids

Talking to your loved one about mobility assistance can be challenging, especially if they don’t believe they need help or fear appearing dependent on others. If you’re not sure where to begin the conversation about mobility aids, here are a few ways you can ease into the conversation.

Talking about mobility issues can be a sensitive subject, especially for those not ready to come to terms with their situation. If this is the case, find a time when you both are calm, clear-headed, and comfortable. This will create a safe environment for open and honest discussions.

Come prepared with specific examples. If your loved one is in denial, referencing concrete changes—like avoiding hobbies they once loved—can help them recognize the impact. For instance, if they no longer enjoy gardening, cooking, or walking the dog due to discomfort, show how mobility aids can ease discomfort and restore joy.

For most, when they hear ‘mobility aid’ they think weakness or loss of independence. However, this is the exact opposite. Help them understand that mobility aids can be tailored to their unique lifestyle. With advancements in technology, like power wheelchairs with seat elevation, those relying on mobility aids can live independent lives.

Come prepared with a few options for them to review and answer. This can help with the decision-making process. Good questions to start with can be: How often will you use the mobility aid? Where will you use it? What do you need it to help you with? Framing the conversation around their preferences helps them feel in control.

You’ll want to stay positive and be supportive during the entire process. Offering support and guidance can help them feel more comfortable embracing their new way of life.

Step 3: Find a Mobility Solution That Promotes Independence

After a mobility need has been determined, the next step is to find which mobility solution will provide the best outcome and offer the most independence.

If you and your loved one are new to this process, you can start by reaching out to your loved one’s doctor or physician for a basic mobility assessment. At the assessment, be sure to discuss any mobility limitations, as this will help your loved one’s care team—physical therapist, occupational therapist, and mobility specialist—identify the best solution for their unique needs.

After the assessment, you’ll need to find a provider who can meet your loved one’s unique needs. Keep in mind that most mobility equipment is covered by insurance, so start by finding a provider within your loved one’s insurance network.

As you and your loved one navigate the insurance process, you may find it can be long, daunting, and complex. To avoid this added stress, it’s helpful to work with a provider who offers expert support every step of the way.

At Rehab Medical, we employ some of the nation’s top assistive technology professionals and insurance experts who advocate on your family’s behalf. Our team helps ensure your loved one receives the mobility equipment they need—not just to get by, but to thrive.

To get started on the process of getting mobility equipment, or if you have additional questions, give our team of mobility experts a call at 866.488.1687 or send us an email. We’re here to help you and your loved ones get back to living life.